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It's been a few months since we last updated everyone on what was happening around the site and our various external sources, so today I'd like to take a moment to let you know what we've been up to on Updates from the Head Blog-A-Holic and anything else special that I can think.

Let's just jump straight into it, shall we? If you've missed these posts or group spotlights, now's the time to check them out!

Posts You Can't Miss

• The Top 4 Places to Get Our Latest
  
  Find out the Top 4 social networking sites that you can use to stay connected with Lifestyle Bloggers Anonymous and what you can expect from each of them. Currently, the list includes:

  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • Google+
  • And one more...
     
• The Best of Our Tumblr Blog (1, 2 & 3)
  
  This is a continuing series on Updates from the Head Blog-A-Holic. Every couple of months, we'll show off some of the best images, videos and quotes that we've been sharing on the Lifestyle Bloggers Anonymous Tumblr blog. These posts are definitely not safe for work!
   
• #SpruzOwners - Resources, Tutorials and Modifiers, Oh My!
  
  
  
  As members of the #SpruzOwners group will know, we're trying to offer up the best resources, tutorials and tricks when it comes to owning and operating your Spruz-powered website (that's the platform that hosts Lifestyle Bloggers Anonymous!). In this post, we'll introduce you to an awesome website that will guide you through creating your site and really getting the best possible looking and functioning website. 
   
• Participation Please!
  
  Not a member on Lifestyle Bloggers Anonymous but still really want to participate and get involved? This post will guide you on some of the rocking things you can do even when you aren't a member on the site.

Groups in the Spotlight

Groups created on Lifestyle Bloggers Anonymous can easily be added to the Group  Spotlight. Want your group featured in the spotlight? Simply fill out this simple and handy little form. Be sure to check out these awesome groups offering great discussions and events.

• The Blog Everyday Challenge
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  Challenge and inspire yourself to blog every single day with The Blog Everyday Challenge group. We're on Google+, have a Twitter hashtag that you can follow and even offer some awesome products through the official store of Lifestyle Bloggers Anonymous, Blog-A-Holic Designs. 
  
  Our next challenge will be starting in May.
   
• Not Getting My Kink On...
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  If you're a kinkster in a vanilla relationship or a single kinkster who is not currently getting your kink on, this group offers a place to vent about the trials, celebrate the small things and as much support as one in this situation could need.
   

• The Erotic Writers Group
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  Erotic writers can gather and connect with other erotic writers in this group. Share your writing and be sure to check out our Google+ Community where the action is always super sexy and very tantalizing.

So, now that you've gotten a little update, don't hesitate to wander over to Updates from the Head Blog-A-Holic and then come back to the site here and have a great time participating. Also, we're still looking for feedback and would love your input. Thanks for reading!

If all you want for Christmas this year is some good ole oral sex, share these videos!!

A few weeks back, in my post 9 Things I've Learnt While Not Getting My Kink On..., I discussed all the things that I felt were important to maintaining a vanilla relationship while desperately craving that it were a kinky one. The big lesson I really wanted to point out was that hope and patience can carry a person a long way in a kinkless relationship.

But tonight, I've come to the conclusion, that I am beginning to lose that hope which is so important to the survival of this kind of relationship. Instead of hope, I feel defeated, lost and absolutely denied. I feel like we won't survive.

It's evident in my blog posts over the last couple of weeks too. First, my 26th birthday rolled around and more than anything, I would've loved a spanking for it. Didn't get that... Then, we had a major break-in. Both of us were too traumatized to have sex for the longest time. Finally, we had vanilla sex.

Then, I got propositioned to shoot some erotic photographs, something that has always been on my sexual to-do list. But because it was professional photographs and not taken by him, I guess, he automatically shot it down.

Today, I feel like seriously considering cheating, just to feel like I have some control over this body that is mine, this life that is mine. I feel hopeless and deprived. It's hard to not feel utter resentment towards him, even though that's not what I'm feeling so much as I am just outright defeat. 

How do you possibly get through this?!?